That has to be frusterating for you. My wife was raised Mormon but by the time we met she had fallen away from them, the stories I could tell you! Anyways as an LDS shes big on the whole prepardness pantry. As far as BOBs or EDCs she puts on ignore but does listen to what I tell her about them and their importance.

The pantry is a great thing. I will be moving to my very own first house soon. I am already planning where to put the active (cooking) pantry and the long-term one. As for the BOBs and so forth, I am still woefully lacking in that area. I haven't really committed to the idea I guess. I still look at them as one-time challenge to assemble. I given a huge rolling duffel for Christmas because of my interest in the car BOB thing. It sits in the house with a modest first-aid kit and some shelter items, a few tools and tape ;not much else. It still hundreds of cubic inches to fill. As you can see, you are not alone. So, just plug ahead a little bit at a time.

A very interesting post and question. I am only speaking from my own experience and everybody's situation is somewhat unique.

I found that "quietly taken actions" provides a better example and drives the point home, eventually, as things happen and people find themselves unprepared, at least to some extent. You can lead a horse to water but you can't force the horse to drink.

My wife and her family all thought of me as the crazy one because of my preparations. I have gotten to the point where I don't discuss the preparedness issue unless it is brought to me via normal conversation.

In the meantime (I am talking of years), those that have made the most fun of me (behind my back) have borrowed my generator (and gasoline) 3 or 4 times when they lost power. 1 niece (and nephew-in-law) has learned that the world is a cruel place and now has a pistol w/a 100 rounds on loan from me, and has actually taken an interest in defending herself and family. Her hubby has experienced firsthand how quickly the "normal" can change and he has quietly promoted preparedness with his wife as well.

I have now ignited an interest in 3 nephews to learn how to camp and backpack, and in learning about edible and medicinal plants.

My wife has experienced the effects of having preparations in case of job loss, hurricanes, etc. She is now believing in what I've been telling her. She now carries a pistol (when appropriate) and has been contributing to preparations by purchasing extra canned goods (and paper goods) when she goes shopping (I purchase dry goods). She also keeps track of our medicinal supplies so that we can proper medications for a while.

Having a thick skin and patience will bring a few around but those who prefer to believe that the Gubmint will take care of them, will continue to believe that regardless of what happens. And yes, those will show up on your doorstep when their view of the world has fallen apart, albeit for a temporary but sufficiently long enought time. Think of a post hurricane situation when the power is down for 3 days or more. When they have drunk all their water and soda's, eaten all their food and then realize that the local stores are still closed.

Best we can do is lead by example.Got a couple kids playing with gardens (One who said why bother,what a waste of time,I buy organic!) somehow saw the light.

Another one got into canning and dehydrating from goodies weve given them.

One thinks he should look into maybe some gold or silver for savings,thats my boy (THINKING,WOOHOO,and it only took until his 40's!!!) He got that idea from seeing the banks crumble and it actually gelled,we were astounded!

But all of it came from seeing us do it mostly,rarely does talking to em do more than make their eyes just glaze over.But some of it does stick,whether they realize it or not at the time,it does put a bug in their ears,even if its to ridicule us (The Yuppie/veg one does but he will learn),it does stick (Hence why obnoxious commercials work).

Really got a chuckle from the Yuppie/Ultra Liberal son (In College) who said we are racists, because we believe in Border Control and guns, and there should be no borders,KUMBAYA,Kumbaya!!... etc.....right until a neighbor was robbed at gunpoint by a Mexican National gang banger....and who proudly has a pistol and shotgun now,LOL! Yup,they do catch on,but slowly,oh so slowly.

I'm the crazy one in my family too. At least I was until the tornados came throught town last year. I still haven't gotten family members to actively prepare, but at least now they know where all the emergency gears is, how to use it, and what to do in a bugout situation.

As Wildman says, sometimes all you can do is be patient and hope life experiences teach them the need for preparedness.

I enjoyed reading this articale as it probably pertains to most of American families , I find it odd but most us are alike in many ways , because One of us is a prepper or survivalist or whatever you want to call it while other family members just go about there business on facebook, twitter and what texting away!

After reading this I came to think ,"whats the best way to introduce the family to my way of thinking "?

Ok I am a Marine my wife was never associated with the Marines or the military until she met me in 2005 , now here it is 2012 7 years later and she's more into the Marines than I am , yes I have the license plates on all my cars and stickers and flag out front (what Marine doesnt?) what Im getting at this , I never forced the Marine issue upon her nor did I tell her to buy this or that , if you were in the Marine you know it never leaves you , so you talk about things quite but, thats my point on being prepared.

My wife never gave a thought about the Marines , never thought about back packing, food storage , weapons and ammo , supplies , you see what Im getting at ? Its a process and it might take a few years but right now , my wife is on board , she wont admit it ,but she buys clothes ,food and other items she otherwise wouldnt have bought without me in her life , talking about the lifestyle in a subtle way over a period time as results , and I didnt even plan this , I happened to read this post and noticed how my wife has changed!

I have been and am building what I call a “social network” of like-minded people. I have friends who have other friends and I am getting to know their friends and hopefully their friends’ friends. Some live the big city like me. Others live on the edge of town and beyond where there is no public transportation.

We are all dysfunctional but we are learning what we can do to help each other. If we go though a zombie apocalypse, I want to go through the zombie apocalypse with my family and dysfunctional friends.

Jeanette Isabelle