Hi,
Ditto for me. My plans are altered somewhat at present, but the basic idea is the same. A safe home in the country for my family. Primary, with as much off-grid as possible with a large garden and some stock animals. Even the ex-wife is again on board with it.
And yes, I'm shy of the word "compound" also. We prefer homestead or station (like Martin's Station on the old Kentucky frontier). It doesn't need to be a retreat or anything like that. Someplace your family can ride out grid hiccups in relative comfort and with minimal interruption.
If you'd like, I'd be happy to converse with you off board. Just PM me.
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