It's hard to get people to understand being prepared without them getting defensive, depressed, or thinking people who do prepared are paranoid. Some of the people who go through our CERT training do seem to get depressed and drop out of training or afterwards drop out of the team because they don't want to think about it any more.
I, too, found the observation about the ability to handle negative outcome very interesting. In my personal experience, many people have far less ability in this regard than I do, and sometimes that makes it difficult for me to interact with them. Any sort of planning, to me, means accounting not just for pleasant outcomes, but for bad, worse, and worst scenarios: what's your backup plan if you don't get what you want? This doesn't make me depressed, unhappy, etc.
By contrast, many people get upset even just thinking about the possibility of things going wrong. The stress is even visible on their faces. I used to think this was some sort of ethical problem: maybe these people are not strong enough to handle challenges in life. But even before reading the article from Blast, I started thinking this is perhaps a value judgment: the detriment of getting stressed vs. the benefit of making plans for bad scenarios. For some the psychological affect is punishing enough that they have to carefully weigh the cost and benefit of putting themselves through such suffering just to have a plan.
As for spreading the wisdom of emergency preparedness, I think culture has a lot to do with it, probably more than psychology. In some hurricane/typhoon-prone third-world areas, people prepare as a matter of course. (Those of us who have to have the best knives, the best saws, the best water filtration technology, etc., can learn a lesson from how you can still get through without all this quality modern stuff.) The US, though, has this culture of plenty. You can go to a megastore at any time of the day to pick up anything you need in bulk, and this system will never fail you, right? Those who do things contrary to this culture of plenty seem weird, irrational, and stupid. Consequently the media tends to focus on the extreme cases (doomsday preppers), and for them preparation is indeed a counter-cultural, apocalyptic thing, because you have to give up so much of a normal life.
So that's why some people employ the idea of "self reliance" to counter this culture of plenty. This is a cultural move as much as a political and an ethical move. It critiques the dominant culture as irresponsible, dependent, etc. A simple, practical matter has to be defended in such a cultural manner!
But no one escapes from the culture of plenty in a way. One of the doomsday preppers from the National Geographic video stocks toilet paper for a whole year. There is nothing wrong with this, but let me point out that this is an American solution which depends very much on manufacturers making a specialized product just for number one. Our ancestors did without it for thousands of years, but now it seems so essential. So some of the doomsday preppers are still thinking within the confines of the culture of plenty.