Tragic.
I see this often in boating where adults don't wear a PFD, kids are made to. It's the "do as I say, not as I do" crowd.
Reminds of the parents I see our riding a bicycle with their kids. Kids all have helmets, parent(s) do(does) not.
There are certainly situations where being an adult makes you less susceptible to some harm that might befall a child. However, when it comes to safety equipment to be worn on the water or when doing potentially dangerous activities, being an over-confident or macho so-called "adult" only proves you are irresponsible and stupid.