They're probably miserable and are just venting because no one at home cares what they think or want. Just listen with one ear and nod at appropriate times, and work in one or two 'uh-huhs'.

From some of the couples I've known, I've wondered why they've stayed married so long. There are some really nice women married to control freaks and idiots, and some really nice men married to control freaks and idiots.

Then there are the Opposites Attract couples, who have never agreed on anything and never will.

I guess people have decided which form their misery should take.

And, as a friend says: "If people didn't get married for such stupid reasons, they wouldn't get divorced for such stupid reasons."

Sue