Here's a really bad drawing:
In written out terms, starting from in the tank.
At the start of the system is a foot valve (keeps the water in the pipe) that's connected to 1" plastic piping with up and out of the tank and down to the pump, which is at ground level. I didn't want to pop a hole into the tank, so the up and over method was used.
The pump has 1" piping, at the discharge, I put in a check valve so that the water can only flow out of the pump. With a small nipple fitting, I then attached a 1" "T" fitting. The left side of the T fitting was fitted with a reducing bushing to get me to a 1/4" NPT female threads into which I placed one of
these. From that barb fitting, I ran 1/4" tubing back up and into the tank.
The other side of the "T" fitting connected to the existing 4 outlet hose manifold I had built some time ago. It's a simple array of hose bibs along a piece of copper tubing that I had found in the basement. Each is sweat-fitted.
When I run the pump, a small amount of water flows up the 1/4" tubing and back into the tank. This has almost no effect on the overall flow through the system, and actually serves as a "bypass mode" for the pump in the event that all of the hose bibs are closed, so it can actually extend the system life.
When I shut down the pump, the check valve on the pump closes, holding prime in the pump, and then air is drawn back into the 1/4" tubing, breaking the siphon quickly. Obviously, the end of the 1/4" tubing needs to be held above the water line at all times, otherwise it will just be a second path for the water siphon.
Total cost in materials was under $50 (not counting the pump, which cost about $300 - it's a commercial grade, continuous duty device.
With the system I have in place, I have 350 gallons of rainwater that is collected, it's amazing how little rainfall you need to fill that barrel.
I also have will over 250,000 gallons of water in my pond, which would not require ANY storage tanks, siphon breakers or much else, but I prefer to not use that for garden irrigation due to the preponderance of tiny squiggly wiggly things in that water and I'd rather not spray them onto my Strawberries and Lettuce!