#225122 - 06/03/11 03:52 PM
Cheering yourself up
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Pooh-Bah
Registered: 02/16/08
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Loc: Central California
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From time to time the problems and unhappiness mount up; I call mine "zombies." When the zombies get thick, I usually do one of three things: take a nap and unlease massive snore-sonic weaponry; hit the road into nature; or jump onto the internet and put my brain to contributing to various amusing and educational forums.
What do you do to cure the zombie problem, aka cheering yourself up?
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#225123 - 06/03/11 04:07 PM
Re: Cheering yourself up
[Re: dweste]
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Plan for the future; what you'll do when things turn around. They always do. I hope your problems are temporary. Most are. Recessions and bad jobs/relationships/marriages all end. The worst fears are often over things that never happen. Ask yourself 'can I deal with the worst that can happen?' if you can; where is the problem? You can bounce back when things pick up. And it's you and the rest of the world struggling at the moment. Don't feel you have failed. Course none of this may apply to you. If you are riddled with cancer, and have a month left. I've no answers. You always have us here on the forum to chat to. qjs
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#225128 - 06/03/11 04:53 PM
Re: Cheering yourself up
[Re: dweste]
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Registered: 06/24/09
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Loc: Kentucky
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Spend time with DW and DS Spend time with friends Work on scouting stuff Yardwork Housework Camping or other outdoor activities Forums Facebook Internet games Games at home (nothing like actually killing the zombies in a virtual environment  )
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#225130 - 06/03/11 05:06 PM
Re: Cheering yourself up
[Re: dweste]
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Registered: 08/10/06
Posts: 882
Loc: Colorado
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Exercise hard enough that I can sleep soundly from the depletion (which also means I'll be sore the next 2 days).
Take a nap.
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#225136 - 06/03/11 05:47 PM
Re: Cheering yourself up
[Re: dweste]
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1. take a hike regularly 2. exercise almost daily x 1 - 1.5 hrs strenuous 3. nothing lasts forever 4. it always looks better in the morning - colin powell 5. have a problem? build a bridge and get over it
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#225145 - 06/03/11 06:40 PM
Re: Cheering yourself up
[Re: dweste]
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Registered: 11/13/06
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It depends on what I am facing. Sometimes all I need is to go for a walk to clear my head. Sometimes I need something more than that.
Jeanette Isabelle
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#225150 - 06/03/11 09:04 PM
Re: Cheering yourself up
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#225153 - 06/03/11 09:16 PM
Re: Cheering yourself up
[Re: dweste]
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1) Attack the problem. This works with some problems (Work due soon: Get work done. House is a mess: Clean it up. Etc.) but not with other things (Family member is a sponging good for nothing).
2) Improve the state of the mind by working on the body. Food, exercise, sleep, and time alone with my wife are my favorites (not in that order).
3) Improve the state of the mind by working on the heart. Time with kids, wife and friends does this for me.
4) Improve the state of the mind by working on the mind. Work (sometimes), reading, video games, Internet fora, time alone to think (often combined with exercise), shooting (practice, training, competition).
5) Relaxation with retail therapy. Sometimes making a Costco run is therapeutic even if I'm just shopping for groceries. It seems to satisfy the hunter/gatherer in me.
6) Turning the mind off with TV, movies, and passive Internet surfing (distinct from contributing to fora).
7) Turning the mind off with beer, wine or liquor.
Note that booze, retail therapy and food can cause more problems than they temporarily alleviate. Drinking, spending and/or eating myself into drunken fat insolvency isn't as amusing as it used to be when I was younger.
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#225181 - 06/04/11 02:14 PM
Re: Cheering yourself up
[Re: dweste]
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Pooh-Bah
Registered: 02/16/08
Posts: 2463
Loc: Central California
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June 4th in Stockton CA: cold and rainy. What is up with that?
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#225184 - 06/04/11 02:50 PM
Re: Cheering yourself up
[Re: dweste]
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Registered: 12/14/09
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I find that getting out and enjoying nature is the best for me. This is from yesterday and there will be more the same tomorrow. 
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Earth and sky, woods and fields, lakes and rivers, the mountain and the sea, are excellent schoolmasters, and teach some of us more than we can ever learn from books.
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#225185 - 06/04/11 03:05 PM
Re: Cheering yourself up
[Re: dweste]
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Pooh-Bah
Registered: 04/01/10
Posts: 1629
Loc: Northern California
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Getting out into nature always does the trick for me. Simply walking around at a park works.
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#225208 - 06/04/11 11:58 PM
Re: Cheering yourself up
[Re: dweste]
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Pooh-Bah
Registered: 09/01/07
Posts: 2432
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Sleep, eat 'happy foods', get out into nature, exercise, have a good scream, find someone worse off then you are and help them.
Or lay out under the stars, with good company if possible, and contemplate that there are something like 200 billion galaxies and millions of stars in each. We are pretty much insignificant in the scale of things. If we parlay our knowledge base into becoming a great space-faring species, or die in a whimper of collective bigotry and incompetence, the universe will not blink. I find that very comforting.
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#225215 - 06/05/11 12:26 AM
Re: Cheering yourself up
[Re: dweste]
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Registered: 07/23/08
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Loc: Mesa, AZ
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I've been staring at this thread for a bit and must confess, speaking of 'zombies' I have been on a terror reading Zombie fiction and PAW books the last 2 months. Makes total sense that that affects my pysche. Good grief I need to read something uplifting next.
Oh and BTW, nice way to sneak Zombie into the forum, 'inside baseball' says its a no-no.
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