Well -

I have no children to worry about. 2 cats, and they are hugely insane and sometimes a handful, but they can be caged.

DW has almost the same mindset I do, on some things she is more forceful, on others not so much. We tend to mesh nicely - I handle stuff, she handles food and clothes.

Cooperating in groups. My time in the service showed there are leaders, followers, subject matter experts, and sheep. Cull the sheep, they do only what is told, nothing more, and may do jobs poorly. You either lead, assist the leader, or don't let the door hit ya on the way out. You keep subject matter experts around if and only if they are useful - like docs, nurses, farmers, carpenters, electricians, plumbers, engineers. The social scientists and the lawyers, see ya, don't want to be ya (and at one time I was a sociology major and a paralegal, but learned useful skills despite my handicapped learning).

The people I will join with more than likely all think about the same way DW and I do. Best case we escape to her family's area, worst case we ride it our here