I thought this might amuse -- one for husbands and one for wives. Not exactly survival related, but then again, basic manners and courtesies help people get along in close quarters. The point being: if mama ain't happy, nobody's happy.
Spousal irritation checklists for marital bliss, circa 1930:
http://www.boingboing.net/2011/02/16/spousal-irritation-c.html