My current thoughts, based on your suggestions in part:
Towel: super absorbent and compact
Clothes: ultra thin wicking poly/merino wool: 
               socks 
               pant, preferable footed or stirrup
               top, preferably hooded
         insulation layer, high tech and thin:
               top to toe as above
         ultralight hooded rainsuit
         ddry footwear ?water socks?  
Insulation from more cold
         bivy heatsheet
         ultra light ground pad? 
Hot liquids
         ?self-heating soup
Multiple hot packs to "wear"
         armpits, groin, back of head?
 
Easy to eat and absorb energy food
         self-heating stew 
         chocolate ?
Wetfire tinder and stove
Sparkie one-handed blast match
Water:
         Nalgene bottle "wearing" a TI cup
Can "wear" the bivy at need as an outer layer
Maybe the size of 2 breadboxes?
 
In a dry bag inside the smallest workable daypack?
Edited by dweste (02/13/11 05:57 AM)