Kinda OT, but FWIW, re bullying: in my young and formative years, I was taught to turn the other cheek, always. Noble sentiment and a worthy aspiration; but in a tough school, you need to prove a willingness to fight before words of peace have any meaning. A sad commentary, perhaps; but the human animal is what it is. There are many who will not discern an active effort for peace from passive fear and weakness. I did what I was expected to do: turned the other cheek. I confess that there are a few heads I would still like to clock (and am quite capable of adjusting the timing of, including the time zone). I think my sister, in instructing her boys, had a better approach: you don't throw the first punch, but by gad you throw the second. My $0.02.