I will ship ahead rather than deal with checked baggage, if possible. My carryon is essentially a BOB with the usual necessities including snacks (my favorite bars are Tonka bars, cherry pie Lara bars, and Banana nut bread Clif bars - usually two or three of each) plus generally a change of clothing, toiletries, and whatever unique, absolutely-can't-lose items might be involved in the excursion. Cutlery is always the trickiest issue.

I agree that airplane travel isn't fun anymore. I can remember when it was, but I date myself.
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