You may laugh, but one of the best featherweight mirrors I've found is this polycarbonate job from Coghlans:
http://www.rei.com/product/745496I bought about ten of these on sale, and they hold up remarkably well. Each kit has one. Good reflective image, little distortion, and they last. Though they will scratch without a bit of protection.
I even use one as a stiffener for my passport while travelling (leg wallet).