Great post, Bryd!  

  That's the beauty of a forum like this:  We have the ability to bounce things off one another and learn from examining real life situations.  I think the day hiker has luxury on his/her side- since you anticipate a short trip you're not already encumbered with a 50 pound pack.  In my mind that means that each person carrying a 10-15 pound load is really nothing.  Certainly not like humping 80 pounds along the AT! 
You see articles and videos on the "Top 3/10/20 Items For Survival" but realistically we should probably think of "2/5/10 Pounds of Gear for Survival."  If you take a kitchen-sink approach to gear, at best you won't enjoy your time out of doors, feeling like a pack mule.  And at worst, you'll leave that bulky pack at home because 
it's just a day hike...  You really have to balance security with living your life.
I'm going to copy your list into a Word file for reference.