Hi Krista,
First - welcome, pull up a log, kick back and relax. I'm the Dad of a girl who becomes a teen next week - Oh boy. (and a guy who turns 9 later in the month)

As someone above said, there mere fact that you've thought about this puts you head and shoulders above 99% of the folks out there

From what I've seen from friends who are "in", there seems to be a fairly good support network among the families, which is a good thing, and I would NOT be surprised if there was a set of SOPs that either your husband, or the spouse (I'd say wife, but that would be sexist) of one of his higher in the chain could show you/talk to you about