Obviously churches and those who attend them are vastly different for all of us, as they should be. It is my suggestion that you should do what you think is right of course. What we do for our security we feel is appropriate and responsible for us. We do not share the same concerns voiced by others here, for very legitimate reasons, which does not invalidate anyone's views.

I would add that our approach is not going to be right for everyone else. It works for us in our church, and and that is sufficient for us.YMMV.

However, if our method does not fit your viewpoint/situation, it would be much appreciated if the derogatory statements and condescending tone would not be levied against us. It serves no useful purpose and detracts from the discussion.