Anyway even if uncle sam was ready to take care of all the unprepared I will do my part and ease the load by being ready.
Bravo! That is truely what it takes for a society to be prepared! It isn't enough to realize our individual needs for preparedness - we also need to look around and see what impact we can have individually on the level of societal preparedness!
Firstly, be individually prepared - that will ease the load on the overall society in every case
Secondly, As possible / reasonable help others by shining your preparedness light in the stairwell of surprise and fear when the unexpected becomes reality. This may be the light of reason and education shared over coffee at work while discussing the recent news or it may be the light of your innova X5 lighting the path out of a subway and providing an example for others to pick-up on the value of helping others with your personal preparations. Who knows if the other-guy would have bothered to help others if you hadn't. Perhaps he would have used his little light to get home without waiting for others to be helped by shining it down the stair.
I applaud all who bothered to use their preparations for the general good rather than holing themselves up with their own.
It is too bad that there are so many in need of so much so often. It is great that there are some - like those who frequent this forum - who are well enough prepared to offer so much to so many when the need arises!