Welcome aboard. Understand your rationale for hospital and doc selection, but it may have been self-defeating. Bigger hospitals get you bigger name docs, but more of your direct care will be managed by residents, interns, and breath-takingly over-burdened nurses: good place to be if you have an unusual diagnosis, not so good if you do not, since the facilities there are very busy, resulting in 27 hour waits for OR time. Fixing femurs is fairly straight-forward work, and you might have been served as well, and much more promptly, at the smaller facility. ER's generally will not stabilize and transfer a fractured femur-hard to effectively stabilize it. Should not have to ask for a bath, and really should not have pressure sores developing-both represent a failure to provide basic care. Consider raising the issue with the risk managers at the facility, in the interest of protecting future patients. Hope the rest of your recovery is uneventful.