It's tools to make the tools time.
What you have is unfortunatly governed by:
A)how much you can afford.
B) what's obtainable.
Having said that, a decent multi-tool is very much your first priority.
In order of quality (and price!):
Victorinox.
Leatherman.
Gerber.
CRKT.
Anyone else. That means Far-East and Made in China knockoffs. Some are better than others. They are better than nothing.
I use a full sized Victorinox multi-tool for work. I used to use a Leatherman. I like the leatherman's but the Victorinox is categorically the better tool.
A decent robust pocket knife or small fixed blade knife is next.
A lighter.
Decent pocket torch.
I EDC a smokers oilskin that has in it.
Needles. Sailmakers and ordinary needles.
Good quality thread.
12' duct tape.
A Bic lighter.
2 Wet-fire cubes.
10 Tinder-Quick.
5 lifeboat matches.
40' 30lb test Spyderwire.
Hooks.
A gaff hook. Useful for hooking things out of awkward spots.
A ziplock bag.
5m braided brass wire. The stuff you use to hang pictures with.
A spark-lite.
5 MP-1 tablets.
6 Aquatabs.
4 band aids.
I also carry one or more 20' lenths of 550 cord in my back pocket(s.
I can repair, creat or bodge up a lot of things with the above.
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I don't do dumb & helpless.