Hello,
I have found a great deal on  Swedish military cooksets.  They're new condition for $5 US at cheaperthandirt.com, item #zrw-170 at 1-800-421-8047:  
terrible picture here   It uses a self-pressurizing alcohol burner made by Trangia (some of you may be familiar with this brand).  It doesn't come with the flame-adjuster lid like it's commercial version cousin, only an o-ring sealed cap, but I believe the  burner is a little larger than the one sold in stores.  
The mess kit has a 2 quart cookpot with a bale-style handle and a coathanger hook for use over open fires.  The frying pan / plate / lid has it's own handle that can be lengthened by inserting a stick.  The burner, a (one pint?) plastic fuel bottle, and the mess kit store inside the base, which seems like a good windproof design.  
This kit is not as compact as some, and I haven't tested mine yet, but it is built very well and sold at a very affordable price.  I will keep mine in my truck to heat meals, emergency heat,  snow melter, water boiler, clothes dryer, oil-pan preheater on frozen mornings, etc.
Regards,
Run