Your best bet if you are single is to go on a bunch of blind dates. If your in a relationship, think back to your first few dates. A job interview is just like a first date. Think about it, when you find or have found that special someone, you had to sell yourself to that person and if you are good that person bought "the goods" ask yourself why? Because you offered something that they saw or were interested in. Employers are the same. I think that getting a second date is harder than getting a job. IMO Because you have KSA's Knowledge, Skills and abilities. In an interview you have resume with your KSA, all you have to do is explain your KSA's, be personal and how it will help the company, I wish you could just had out resumes for dating but you can't you have to sell yourself for that next date. Your ability to sell yourself or interview is as easy as dating. Hope this helps. I had a professor who explained it like this once. Good luck