I have the long handled titanium (ice cream) spoon for MRE's, and a giant super spork like "be prepared" linked to above, for stirring pots and handling the 3 jobs in one, plus 2 each (my bop and wife's bop) of the smaller light my fire super sporks for eating out of bowls individually. Combined weight, <8 oz for all utensils. Virtually indestructable.
And I tend to shovel when I eat anyway, so volume is irrelevant, just a plow is all I need!