What are good options in the 8'x10' size that have ties on the outside of the ridgeline and a decent number of grommets on the edges? I'd like to have the ridge paracord outside the tarp rather than underneath it. Also, how many/what kind of stakes do most of you keep with your tarp?
I don't have this but out Scoutmaster does, and I consider it the Cadillac of non-silnylon tarps - 9x9 from Kelty
http://www.rei.com/product/627834. If you look at the picture you see plenty of tie outs, they are all strong and reinforced, and the tarp itself is leakproof in the heaviest downpour. Three adults and a handful of Scouts passed a cold, wet evening comfortably underneath the larger size. $60 is not cheap, but it provides a lifetime of use. The REI brand tarp I carry is the same size with reinforced grommets, cheaper but no longer available apparently.
Most places we hike we don't need stakes to tie down our tarps, plenty of trees and root material. If you had to, use your hiking poles and a couple lightweight stakes.