I think that blame is easier than understanding.
The one lesson I learned from this was I am a lesser man than Dong Yun Yoon.
"Please pray for him not to suffer from this accident," a distraught Dong Yun Yoon told reporters gathered near the site of Monday's crash of an F/A-18D jet in San Diego's University City community.
"He is one of our treasures for the country," Yoon said in accented English punctuated by long pauses while he tried to maintain his composure.
"I don't blame him. I don't have any hard feelings. I know he did everything he could," said Yoon, flanked by members of San Diego's Korean community, relatives and members from the family's church.
and yes, i am sobbing like a little girl right now with my 10 month old asleep in my lap...