Good deal dweste.

I'm wishing the best for you, and want to thank you for sharing what's going on with you (man, that sounded like a therapy group I was in once).

In reading your posts and the responses of others, I re-evaluate my family's preparedness level and learn from you - thanks.

There are probably folks not part of the ETS community that lurk through that may be going through something similar and are learning from you as well.