Hey MoBOB,
My wife is the opposite of yours, the bigger the fuss the better on her Birthday.
I am always working on our Wedding Anniversary in May, so it is often forgotten until a couple of days after. I should do something special this year as it is our 20th.
I know your first Anniversary is "Paper" and the 25th is "Silver", I think the 20th is either Gerber or Remington?
Mike