OldBaldGuy: You're right. Spit-shining is pretty much long gone. And I too noticed that there was a difference after using wax that had been melted and then allowed to cool. I used to do it though, on new boots and low-quarter shoes, to get the first few coats on there.
Frankie: I really think it might be overkill but I don;t think it would hurt. Not right after you loaded leather with wax, but as an occasional "water-proofer", the Nikwax would work. I think, for me, Id just go with one or the other. One thing I might do is use snoseal or nikwax along the sewn seams, especially where the uppers are sewn to the sole.
As far as overboots that's the way to go if you know you'll be sloshing through ankle-deep water. No matter what you put on leather, water will still get into the pores and get the interior damp. I mean, if you were to somehow seal leather completely, I think it would, like wood, just expand, crack, and you'd be back to square one. Waxes, preservants, softeners, balms, "water-proofers", I think the best they can do is help make them water "resistant".
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