#126943 - 03/10/08 06:59 PM
A family friendly shtf plan needed
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Journeyman
Registered: 09/27/07
Posts: 76
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OK... I had everything ready in case the SHTF at home, going to work, at work, out&about... now there's a twist!
As you can tell by my screen name, I'm a dad. This changes your life more than you ever could imagine. It is just dawning on me that my previous plans are woefully lacking! I could use some good tips and tricks for a plan that would include your two year old, one year old, and infant!
With one I could make it work... with two it was a stretch but doable... now with a 3rd... I need to seriously revise my plan. Getting rid of them, bailing on them, or doing anything other than keeping them safe is out Please help me nail down this twist to the plan.
*note added: We live in the earthquake/flood/volcano/rainy/winter snow region (the Pacific Northwest - coastal mountains) This past winter a couple towns were flooded out over night and another was buried under +13 feet of snow, a stretch of towns were nailed with hurricane force winds taking down trees, isolating the towns for over a week at a time - hopefully this will help in figuring out some of the reasons I need to update the plan particular to our location.
From bug-out vehicle to supplies... where do I start? where would you?
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#126948 - 03/10/08 07:25 PM
Re: A family friendly shtf plan needed
[Re: OutdoorDad]
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Veteran
Registered: 09/17/07
Posts: 1219
Loc: here
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OutdoorDad,
Spend 5 or 6 hours searching and reviewing past forum postings. I know it sounds a bit heavy, but there has been tons of stuff posted about vehicles, bags, kits, and equipment in just the few months I have been here.
As a survivor of the early childhood parenting stuff I would make sure you focus on the simple things that can keep your kids clean and warm. Having 2 or 3 dozen cloth diapers and a case of Dreft (or the hypoallergenic, perfume-free detergent of your choice) will do you a ton of good. Or a bzillion disposable diapers can do just as well. We used cloth as much as possible and had far fewer rash and other related infection problems.
I would maybe look into making a "rickshaw" out of a bike trailer. I would help in transporting the kids if you are forced to be afoot.
Just my 2 cents
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"Its not a matter of being ready as it is being prepared" -- B. E. J. Taylor
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#126950 - 03/10/08 07:51 PM
Re: A family friendly shtf plan needed
[Re: MoBOB]
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Old Hand
Registered: 12/10/07
Posts: 844
Loc: NYC
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I think you think about what you need to BUG IN, first. What do you need in case you and your family cannot go anywhere for a month. List it. Think about alternatives for some things when space, cost or weight gets to be too much. Work towards preparing for that.
Next think about bugging out with a vehicle. What do you have available? Where is that going to get your family and with how much? Where could you head to if you needed to bug out? Prep BOBs for everyone one of you, and in case of your kids, adjust your meals and include entertainment. Feed your children some of those things that you would have if you needed to bug and store things that they eat. When my niece was two canned pasta and peaches were two of her favorites, so those thigns should have been in her BOB.
Once you get from using a motor vehicle to using something else, your problems really multiply. But If you have the things you might need if a car were available, when the car is not available, some of your choices have already been made.
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#126955 - 03/10/08 08:18 PM
Re: A family friendly shtf plan needed
[Re: MoBOB]
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Journeyman
Registered: 09/27/07
Posts: 76
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OutdoorDad,
Spend 5 or 6 hours searching and reviewing past forum postings... I agree there is a wealth of info on this site... once you add little ones to the mix though a lot of things just don't work anymore, which is why my original plans was found lacking. Instead of the basic truck I am looking more toward a 4x4 van or stock suv (blends easier than a pinzgauer)
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#126957 - 03/10/08 08:23 PM
Re: A family friendly shtf plan needed
[Re: MoBOB]
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Old Hand
Registered: 10/19/06
Posts: 1013
Loc: Pacific NW, USA
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OutdoorDad,
You don't say if you live in any of those specific places that suffer floods, volcanoes or excessive snow, but here in the PNW we're all exposed to earthquake and power outages. If you are in a flood zone or volcano zone you need to be prepared to evacuate, but most folks need to be prepared to shelter in place, and for that its simply a matter of multiplying your own needs and accomodating differences in diet and other needs for toddlers. If you're not in a flood or lahar zone, work on stockpiling adequate food, medical, water and warmth (clothing, sleeping bags) sufficient to get your family through at least a week without power (we were 9 days without power in the Dec 2006 blow, and we're only 25 blocks south of Puget Sound Energy HQ). Keeping a tent shelter or two can work out well in the event your house isn't habitable. The local 3 Days 3 Ways is pretty good for this, and can be adapted for just a bit longer before help may arrive.
If you anticipate being on the move, consider that you'll need to keep everyone warm, fed, watered and dry, and besides a vehicle consider a wagon or other wagon like conveyance (Home Depot sells a swell wagon with sides designed for moving stuff around your garden). This is probably the most remote type of preparation you need to make, but you won't go as far or as long carrying as you would pulling your kids along. Most of all though you should have a plan for where to go, and places to stop before you get there. Others may disagree with me here, but if you have to bug out from your home, a likely first destination for a young family with three toddlers is whatever Red Cross shelter can be found - not to stay there indefinitely, but to find a warm bed and communications with the outside world, where you can arrange your next step evacuating yourself from the area.
For kids especially, pack some small toys and animals to keep them busy and somewhat happy in case you are displaced. Double up on their outdoor coats, and pay attention to a good waterproof layer, pants and coat (it rains anytime here). Trust your wife as to number of underwear etc, then double it. Kid snacks as well - my younguns have no interest in my food, they want snack crackery type food.
I would also focus quite a bit on sanitation, both handwashing and keeping fairly clean. Where there are kids there are dirty diapers, which makes for some uncomfortable dining situations unless you are prepared with adequate supplies of hand wash and the rigor to use it. Preparation is a good excuse to get your kids in the habit of washing their hands now, so its not such a struggle when the power blinks off and they don't have the comfort of warm water to wash up with.
Your kids may be too young for school but if they are in daycare ask what their emergency plan is - and if they don't have one, volunteer to organize one. If you are like alot of folks you can be 30 miles from home during the day and would be unable to get to your kids for a day or two following a 9.0 shake. Talk to your neighbors and see if they are interested in shared child care in case you are away or injured. And make sure the daycare has an accurate and up to date list of folks they can release your kids to - if a relative could pick up your kids and get them home that's probably better all around than keeping them at a daycare facility.
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#126970 - 03/11/08 12:13 AM
Re: A family friendly shtf plan needed
[Re: Lono]
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Carpal Tunnel
Registered: 12/26/02
Posts: 2997
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Someone said you need to concentrate on bugging in but you can't know which your going to do until the situation happens so you need to be prepared to bug in out bug out. What is your environment like, what kinds of disasters are likely to happen? House fire can affect anyone, then there is the possibility of flood, hurricane, tornado, power outage in the winter, etc. Start with basics such as extra food and water. How old are your kids, do you need extra diapers, baby food, formula, etc. If you pug out can your kids sleep in a normal bed or do you need a portable crib?
for a vehicle an extended or quad cab truck can still haul kids and is a little cheaper than an suv and usually gets better fuel economy and also you have a separated cargo area, that is a safety feature because you can haul fuel without fumes in the cab.
Do you and your wife both work, or is one at home? If you have to evac work and can't get home have a planned meeting place and backup or two.
Anyone that works outside the home should have a get home bag to assist you in getting home should you need to.
you should have go bags packed for each family member with whatever they need to survive should you need to leave.
Edited by Eugene (03/11/08 12:20 AM)
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#126978 - 03/11/08 01:53 AM
Re: A family friendly shtf plan needed
[Re: Eugene]
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Geezer
Registered: 06/02/06
Posts: 5357
Loc: SOCAL
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Odds are bugging in is the most likely option, regardless of whether you're in a flood zone or volcano zone.
If flood conditions force you out take the supplies you have for bugging in, pack the kids into your car and leave.
When's the last time a volcano poured lava in the PNW -- okay, it happens and it was pretty devastating but there was plenty of warning and again, pack your stuff and kids into the car.
Plan for the most likely problems and the most likely situations will probably have you staying home and bugging in.
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#126988 - 03/11/08 06:53 AM
Re: A family friendly shtf plan needed
[Re: OutdoorDad]
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Journeyman
Registered: 11/17/07
Posts: 88
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OutdoorDad,
Wow man you got a full house. Your post brought back a childhood incident of mine.
My parents were devorced, and while visiting Dad, we had a substantial sized tree at both ends of the street he lived on fall over in high winds. These trees were enormous to my 9 year old view of things. Thinking back on it now they were about 4 feet in diamiter. Luckily my Dad's neighbors had a few chainsaws, although it still took several hours for the residents of his street to clear enough tree to allow a car to pass.
The point is do you have:
1) a chain saw 2) an ax 3) a pocket saw (one of the quality ones, not the wire type.)
The ax with the skill to use it or the pocket saw are key items to keep the path to and from the home accessible.
Do other family members live in the area (also are they on speaking terms, or safe around your children?) that you could include in the bug out? I find more people help with multiple kids, as my uncle has 4. Usually best at one adult to a child.
I live in southern California, and have a Grandmother who is 96yrs old. If we get hit with a big quake I am going straight to her residence to check on her.
The bicycle with a homemade trailer that someone else mentioned is a great idea. A guy I work with had one made for himself tohaul his daughter around, while he and mommy ride on a two seater bike. If you get one set upit would do you good to haul the kids around town on errands, by getting you into great shape.
I realizethe bike won't work in sever winter weather, so truck (quadcab)/or jeep eagle (4 by 4 station wagon)/ or suv are good options.
Just afew thoughts.
Joe
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#126998 - 03/11/08 12:35 PM
Re: A family friendly shtf plan needed
[Re: Joseph13]
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Enthusiast
Registered: 08/21/07
Posts: 301
Loc: Pennsylvania, USA
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Hey Dad
Here's my two cents, based on what you said.
If your in a flood prone area as you stated, have some sort of boat handy, notice I said a boat and not a canoe, a boat will make everyone involved a lot happier.
Quality tools to dig out or cut your way out is a must, chainsaw, oil, fuel, extra chains, chain sharpener, extra bar etc.
Comfort food for the children, a portable DVD with their favorite movies, games, coloring books, pen and paper, favorite toys etc.
Make sure you have extra clothes for them.
If you have to bug out with them,make sure you have something with plenty of room " think Suburban,full size van etc." 4 wheel drive always comes in handy. Nothing worse than having 5 people cramed into to small a space.
Having their own BOB bags goes along way to boost their moral.
If you have to leave you motorized transportation, nothing beats those child trailers and seats for the bikes that hold the smaller ones, some even have cargo space to haul stuff.
I'm sure your already prepared as far as the basics, meds, diapers, thermometer etc.
Power outages, all I can say is Generator and plenty of fuel. Speaking of which, get yourself and inverter too, that way when your on the road and one of the children needs a vaporizer etc, you have power.
Also for power outages an alternate heat source such as a wood burner or kerosene heater comes in handy.
And make sure everything you buy geared towards children is quality items, we all know how hard children can be on things.
Thats all I can think of, hope something I said helps.
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#126999 - 03/11/08 12:38 PM
Re: A family friendly shtf plan needed
[Re: Shadow_oo00]
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Pooh-Bah
Registered: 02/16/08
Posts: 2463
Loc: Central California
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Edited by dweste (03/11/08 03:27 PM)
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