Diesel fuel is like 75 cents more a gallon period right now, it has nothing to do with the winter. It'll go down to maybe 30-40 cents more once winter is over, if you're lucky. My cousin has been driving his diesel truck for a few years, he loved rubbing it in when the gas prices were lower, but now it was costing him more in gas than the note. Of course when you get 12mpg, these things might be expected..
US National average right now for gas and diesel is:
$3.13 regular
$3.55 diesel
That's a difference of 42 cents or about 12%. Considering diesels get anywhere from 20% to 40% better mileage than a comparable gas engine, a diesel is still making out pretty well, even with diesel fuel prices at their winter peak.
The problem though, is that we don't have too many comparable engines anymore. The diesels in 3/4 ton and 1 ton trucks have become performance options instead of money saving options, thanks to a hp/tq war between truck manufacturers.
From what I've been reading though, that should change very soon. As, a lot of manufacturers have smaller and less expensive diesels coming out. Closer to what we see in Europe.