1. blackhawkindustries sells a kevlar full wrist supported glove http://www.blackhawkindustries.com/product_detail.asp?product_id=1980&d=

2. if you are going to get a hydration pack, i would recommend camelbak, platypus or hydrostorm. they are the most durable, has most features and are easyest to use.
http://camelbak.com/
http://www.blackhawkindustries.com/product_catalog.asp?cat_id=46
http://www.cascadedesigns.com/platypus/

3. small led light like the proton are very usefull, but you wont see much with it at 10 yards away. best flashlight to walk the dog or something are proberbly surefire ( very pricy ), maglights ( S&W makes very good maglight like flashights for a lower price )

4. i dont really have experians with that, so cant help you with that <img src="images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" />

5. mil-spec BDU's trouwsers (millitairy trouwsers) has loads of bags, are durable, lightweight, cheap, has ajustable straps,dry fast, etc. aviable at armynavy shops, supplyshop,etc. you can get reinforst version of them, they also come in non-camoflage colors <img src="images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
i love those pants.... <img src="images/graemlins/smirk.gif" alt="" />