Susan in your location, staying put would probably be best in most situations. Bug out is for those times it’s not. Any Equipment set aside for bug out can be used if you stay also it makes it easier and more efficient when and if the time occurs. Most of us don’t live in such a great place (YET!!!). Where my family lives is in a decent suburb of a large city in the southeast.
Large cities are going to be the first to feel the shortages brought on by a “widespread situation”. As a result there will be as there always have been those who will be ready to take what they want or need from anyone they are able to. In a “widespread situation” you will have decide whether to defend what you have or give in to the people who want it. To defend against them you need a place that is defensible. We live in a mobile in a nice area but it is indefensible, as are most trailers.
So we have in place a plan to bug out, not to the wilds to survive off the land, but to a location kind of like yours with friends and other family members. This gives us the time (hopefully) to decide what to do next. If the decision is made based on situation to stay. Then we begin what plans we have to provide for our safety and security. In the event that the situation is worse than we thought or deteriorate after our initial assessment then we will in convoy go to another predetermined place again like your with shelter (my retirement home), but further removed from large population centers. Again not surviving in the wilds but following a plan that provides more safety and security than a trailer near a large violent population center. Bugging out does not mean that I want to live in a tent for the rest of my life. It means putting as much distance as possible between me and the violence that is sure to follow a civil break down however short or long term.