"The system is not reponsible for your kids and their behavior. YOU* are responsible for their behavior. If YOU* don't like what they're being exposed to at their school, YOU* can remove them from the school and either put them in another school, a private school, or homeschool them. YOU* have options, but they take some thought, and probably more financial control than you're exerting now." When I said the system I meant that WE as adults are failng the children not only our own but all children.