My sister is now going through what you are experiencing, except her husband recently abandoned her after 16 years of marriage and two young children (aged 7 and 4); also $80k in debt, not including the mortgage on the house.
I wish you (and my sister) didn't have to go through something as awful as this, but I admire your strength and resolve.
Regards,
Justin
I don't understand these guys who just abandon their wifes during the greatest time of need. they just left their wifes out of the blue. I am so angry at this kind of behavior.