In a lot of survival discussions and literature, being the grey man is advocated -be inconspicuous, blend in, dress in drab colors, and don't let your equipment or actions indicate that you are well equipped and prepared, lest the hungry mob attack and strip you of everything.

How realistic is this strategy? Ar there real life instances where conspicuously equipped and attired folks were actually mobbed? Any definitive studies? CDC or FEMA guidelines?

I ask because there are many different types of emergency situations, in at least quite a few where the opposite of being the grey man - stepping forward, using your gear to assist others, etc. might be a much better outcome.

Granted that walking around in an ongoing riot with a handful of $100 bills might not a very good idea, i am pretty sure there must bee a happy medium for a good many situations.

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