Hello all, I came across this short article in Grit.com and thought you might find it worth your time.

"Reasonable Preparedness, Real Resiliency"
https://www.grit.com/blogs/reasonable-preparedness-real-resiliency

Quote:
"During 33 years of working in disaster situations and conflict zones, and after hundreds of interviews with war and disaster survivors, I have never heard a single soul say; “I wished I’d had a gun, that would have made everything better.” What they said was, “I wish I’d have had my friends and family.” The other most heard desire was, “I wish we had a safe place to go.”"