I'm in NYC. I always have a whistle and small photon light around my neck (and I don't care who laughs at me in the office). In my pocket inside a 3" x 4" plastic bag (because ladies pants pockets are too small and light for anything heavy or big) is a breastmilk bag for water/liquid, facemask, triple ointment and a small piece of duct tape. This is always on me -- no matter what. Good for crane and building collapses, smoke conditions, etc. I EDC other items in my tote and jacket/coat, but that won't help me if I'm in a conference room when something happens. If it's not on me...it doesn't exist.

P.S. I'm glad your daughter is all right!