Regarding the hair dye question....No, not on purpose.

At the risk of sounding sexist, here is my wife-approved answer to your latest question:

In my limited experience, here are the qualities that I believe women appreciate in men:

1. Money and/or the ability to make money. The more the better.
2. Self confidence...which usually leads to #1.
3. Good listener. Even when it's torture.
4. No crying, whining or complaining....see #2
5. Groom and clean-up the looks you were given. Be less concerned about your own looks than the women in your life cares about her own looks.
6. Good sense of humor.

7. Grey hair, by itself, does not give a man more character. More character gives a man more character.

8. More money can be substituted and make up for any deficiencies in items 2 through 7.